
Hellloooo my beautiful honiessss,
What if the way you pay attention to your vision is the truest form of devotion to the life and business you dream of experiencing?
Not the frantic, hustle-at-all-costs kind of attention.
Not the endless scrolling to see how others are doing it.
Not the copy and paste goal of a zillion dollar months and more followers
But the kind of attention that whispers: if you can imagine it, it already exists.
The kind that anchors you, clarifies your path and reminds you why you're showing up every day—even when it's hard. when the investment is big. and your to do list is as long as your arm.
What's your North Star?
Mine is 'Il dolce far niente'—the sweetness of doing nothing.
But here's the truth: living a life steeped in that kind of ease and freedom requires intentionality—a deliberate and abundant system that supports my on seasons and off seasons.
Last year was an off season. I was blissfully drunk on the nectar of rest and creativity—recharging, evolving, and simply being. No big strategic launches, just steady recurring revenue and flexible 1:1 packages that honored my energy.
This year? It's an on season. I'm laying deeper and wider foundations, pouring into the structures that will sustain my dreamy, freedom-filled life long term—and for when I decide to welcome little humans into the mix.
So while my internal North Star will always be “the sweetness of doing nothing,” my strategic North Star is:
“I get highly paid for just being myself.”
And every decision I make, every strategy I design, supports that vision.
Steep this…
When I created The Most Abundant Timeline™, it wasn't some clever branding move. It was born from survival.
It was my lifeline—a way to connect with my North Star when I felt lost in the noise of scarcity, ptsd and conditioning..
when i'd ask my clients what their most abundant timeline looked like…
i'd hear: A private chef. 5 star travel. A personal trainer. Some land. 300K IG followers.
Amazing—I'm here for all of it babyyyy.
But then, I'd hear the kicker: “idkkkkk let's shoot for $10K a month.”
SKRRRTTT.
Nope. Sorry, $10K a month doesn't bankroll that dream life in most parts of the Western world. but you've heard that number circulate enough that you think that figure is your dreammmm..
What I realized over and over is that the lack of clarity around their real goals kept people stuck in dreamland, spinning their wheels instead of moving forward.
And the answer isn't just more strategy or working harder—it's identity work.
The Real Tea…
Here's the magic question to get started:
If I could wave a magic wand, who would I be? What does my day-to-day look like? What's the dream?
Then, get honest: What's the gap between that dream version of you and the person you are today?
Your job is to bridge the gap in nourishing and exciting ways that honors your energy.
I'll give you a personal example: years before I met Z, I was obsessed with writing out the perfect manifestation list for my dream partner.
Then I heard a question that changed everything:
"Are you the kind of person your ideal partner would want to be with?"
Oof. Instant accountability. I wanted a cultured, well-traveled creative who had a lot of financial freedom, but was I investing:
In solo travel for myself?
Expanding my own art and creativity?
Leading with my depth?
Growing my own assets?
or was i a party girl that didn't respect her body? spent her HARD earned money frivolously and just talked about who she wanted to be one day…
The same thing goes for your goals.
Want $20K months? Cool….But then why is your brand inconsistent, your messaging lacking focus, your content not telling a story and your highest offer only $1K? dot dot dot
Want to be the next industry leader? Iconic. But why aren't you letting yourself be seen, heard, or creatively challenged? dot dot dot
So here's your invitation this week:


What does the most abundant version of yourself: have, do, feel, know, and experience?
Be brutally honest about the gap you need to bridge.
When you know the gap, you don't just have a to-do list—you have a blueprint for who you're becoming.
Here's to giving your dreams the kind of attention that feels like prayer.
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with love and disruption.
Nathaly | Oracle
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